If you are talking to your partner or thinking about going to your first swingers club, but are not sure how to approach it or how to behave at the club then this blog is for you.
If you are going as a single man, single lady or couple to your first swingers club the first piece of advice I would give you is if the swinger club has a website make sure to take your time and read everything on the site, especially the rules. As all swinger clubs have rules and you must fully then 100%.
Now as a single man going to your first swingers club the number one rule is do not be pushy and if a lady or couple says sorry no then do not ask again. Of course talk to them, but do not be pushy.
As a single man you may find you have to pay a bit more then a single lady or couple to go. This is to make sure the swingers club is not just full of men and there is a balance between men and women. So do not let that stop you.
For single ladies if it is your first time it may be a bit nerve racking, but be assured all swinger clubs vet the people that come, so do not worry about people being there, that should not. If you see a couple you like just make eye contact and smile and if they are interested the lady from the couple will usually come to talk to you first. If you feel comfortable just go with the flow, but if for whatever reason you do not just tell them you are not ready yet or sorry it is not for me. There is no issue in being truthful.
For a new couple going, make sure you discuss your boundaries with each other before you go, so you know what each other is willing to do. If one of you do not want to take part at certain times tell your partner. Also men if your partner is very pretty she will be very popular, but do not let this overwhelm you. It is normal. If it is getting to you talk to her and explain how you feel. This goes the same to you ladies, if your male partner is getting a lot of attention and you feel a bit left out talk to him and let him know how you feel.
The main thing for couples is communication is key for a happy and relaxing time at any swingers club.
Lastly to anyone still not sure but wanted to go when you get to the swinger club just be honest with the host and tell them you are new and they will support you and answer any questions you have. You will find they are very friendly places to go.
If anyone has any questions about going to their first swingers club please feel free to message or email me. I am happy to answer any questions.
Happy swinging everyone!